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8 posts
May 03, 2007
5:13 PM
I am a Lesbian. I have been trying to work up the courage to ask thisgirl out that i really like. we are both 15. She Is Kinda Punkish/Emo. I love the way she looks, and acts. She makes me feel like i have butterflys in my stomache when i am around her. My friend wants to ask her out for me but i told her not to. I really need some Help in asking her. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
163 posts
May 05, 2007
4:42 PM
Medicine Horse,

It sounds like you definitely have a crush on her, and that's worth exploring. Can you get her alone to talk to her? Do the two of you share any interests you know of? Can you invite her to something you'd both enjoy? Where do you know her from?


11 posts
May 06, 2007
5:50 PM
I would talk to her one on one but we both go to different schools. We both love basket ball. Well right now I dont have anything i could invite her to. I know her from a school that i really want to go to. I AlWAYS go to their basket ball games. I met her at a basket ball game that me and my friend dannielle went to. I go to that schools games because i have a friend who plays for them. She has a girl friend. The problem is that I might be moving. I dont know what to do??????

Last Edited by on May 06, 2007 6:36 PM
170 posts
May 15, 2007
11:29 PM
Medicine Horse,

If you can get up the courage to ask for her phone number or email address, hopefully you can get to know her even if you move. Just tell her, you'd like to get to know her better, and ask if you can call/email her sometime. Or if she doesn't feel comfortable with that, you can try giving her your contact info. Try to tell her something about you, or show her something about you that might interest her in finding out more. Does any of this sound possible?

16 posts
May 17, 2007
6:22 PM
I hardly get to see her so i dont know if it is possible. i will ask if she has a email address but i doudt she does. i am scared. i don't want to move.
174 posts
May 22, 2007
12:06 AM
Medicine Horse,

I know this is a really hard time. Do what you can to connect with people you like, because they could make a huge difference in how well this all turns out. If you can't get access to this girl, keep looking for people you can trust to talk with.


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